Wise ladies, I have a little rant and would like to seek your advice.

Chris and I have cohabited for 2 years. 2 weeks ago I caught a bout of stomach flu, and when I was ill, He asked if it was ok that he stopped by the wine shop to order some bottles after work to which of course I said ok. It took him well over 2 hrs at the bottle shop, I expressed my disappointment as I felt a little neglected during my illness. He didn’t get it and thought I was kicking up a fuss.

Next week he caught the bug, and I took care of him like any partner would.

This week I am worst off with the virus again. 

Today the 192 bottles of wine his friend “invested” in arrived. We’re helping him store his “investment” as he has relocated to Germany and we suspected it was a ponzi scheme. 

And given we don’t trust the helper to not damage the new fridge or tens of thousands $ of wine, of course I had to open and arrange the wine, no easy task when on medical leave with fever and full body aches from the bug.

Chris is then going to 18 hole golf after work tonight with a mate of his. I am not a golf widow.. He hasn’t golfed in about 5 yrs and is using up some vouchers expiring 28th April. I even had to place the booking for him! 

Do I have the right to be pissed off? What would you tell your husbands if that happens? Am I being spoilt and unreasonable? 

TIA, appreciate your response xx

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Ja den er helt gal, det kan I godt se. Men hvad skal hun gøre? Kan hun tillade sig, at være sur – eller skal hun bare sluge kamelen?

Læs andre “Expatwives gone wild – and crazy” lige HER, HER og HER.

Postet by Anon: 

My husband is away on business at the moment and last night I got up to get my child a drink around 2am. The kitchen is next to the helpers room and when I went to get a drink I was startled to hear loud sex noises coming from my helpers room. We often get up in the night to get a drink and I’ve never heard this before. It wasn’t just muffled groans it was full on loud, almost porn like noises! So as you can imagine I’m a little shocked, embarrassed (in case she realised I heard her) and paranoid about what was going on. Ok I get it she is entitled to make her own entertainment(!) but a) I already struggle with having someone live-in and this was super uncomfortable (especially as I was so startled I dropped the lid off a bottle and it made a noise on the floor which she likely heard) b) I’m now paranoid she had someone in there (we have a security camera which didn’t detect any motion coming into the apartment so not sure that’s possible) or the thought even crossed my mind she could be doing webcam porn or something! I think it’s the fact it’s also 2am (and we all go to bed by 10pm) and she is caregiver to my child so I’m also worried about her being tired during the day when he is in her care if she is staying up so late. This is a really awkward topic and it’s embarrassing to talk to anyone about it let alone her! I’m now awake worrying away and feeling uncomfortable in my own home. What should I do?

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Som I kan se, der har vi virkelig et “world problem” her. HVAD SKAL HUN GØRE?? Skal hun 1. lade som ingen ting ♦ 2. konfronterer hende vedr. hendes højtlydende stønnen? ♦ 3. fyre hende og slippe for, at hun laver pornofilm i hendes værelse..?

What is a girl to do?