NOGLE GANGE TÆLLER DE SMÅ TING..
Der er ingen tvivl om at det kan være svært nogle gange med kærlighed – og specielt efter mange år i forhold. Der er ting ens partner gør der driver en til vanvid og vice versa. Man bilder sig tit ind at man gør alt hvad man kan for sit forhold – men gør man egentlig det? Og fortæller man 100% ærligt hvis der er noget der går en på? Lige så ærlig som jeg er – ligeså meget bider jeg også mig selv i læben for ikke og lyde som et surt opstød. For face it – ingen mand gider at komme hjem til en sur kælling. Det gad jeg sgu heller ikke selv. Det er vigtigt at man accepterer hinanden og specielt for den personen er. Jeg ved at min kæreste sætter rigtig stor pris på sine venner og at rejse med dem. Det syntes jeg måske ikke altid er fedt – men jeg accepterer det. Og så har jeg nogle ting der gør mig til den jeg er og gør mig glad – ligeså håber jeg på at han accepterer mig. Det er ihvertfald det mindste man kan gøre i et forhold, for det koster ingen ting og det giver så meget igen.
Jeg blev rigtig rørt da jeg læste denne artikel. Den handler om Brad Pitt som fortæller om hans kone. Og det virker som om at han har fat i den lange ende. I må gerne videre sende den til jeres kærester ; ) Tror min får en kopi.
A Secret of Love
My wife got sick. She was constantly nervous because of problems at work, personal life, her failures and problems with children. She has lost 30 pounds and weighted about 90 pounds in her 35 years. She got very skinny, and was constantly crying. She was not a happy woman. She had suffered from continuing headaches, heart pain and jammed nerves in her back and ribs. She did not sleep well, falling asleep only in the morning and got tired very quickly during the day. Our relationship was on the verge of break up. Her beauty was leaving her somewhere, she had bags under her eyes, she was poking her head, and stopped taking care of herself. She refused to shoot the films and rejected any role. I lost hope and thought that we?ll get divorced soon? But then I decided to act on it. After all I?ve got the most beautiful woman on the earth. She is the ideal of more than half of men and women on earth, and I was the one allowed to fall asleep next to her and to hug her shoulders. I began to pepper her with flowers, kisses and complements. I surprised her and pleased every minute. I gave her lots of gifts and lived just for her. I spoke in public only about her. I incorporated all themes in her direction. I praised her in front of her own and our mutual friends. You won?t believe, but she has blossomed. She became even better than before. She gained weight, was no longer nervous and she loved me even more than ever. I had no clue that she CAN love that much.
And then I realized one thing: “”The woman is the reflection of her man””